Yall… my life has been turned upside down & in and out! One of the best decisions I have made was to turn my sights on the older bachelor’s out there. Older men are amazing and I don’t think I’ll ever go back Foreal, for real! I am 26 okay and I am no longer interested in guys that are in my age bracket. From my experiences, men who are in there 20s just do want what I want. No big deal. Granted there are exceptions to everything but older men ooooohhhhhhh girl. They do something to me and give me nasty thoughts.


With that being said let’s get down to the nitty-gritty. I have compiled 10 reasons why you should start dating older men RIGHT NOW!

  1. They are more than likely done with their hoe phase. Tell me that’s not freaking great?! While the young men are out here testing new pussy every chance they get, older men are tired of being a hoe and are grown and ready for something more from a woman other than sex.
  2. Older men know how to give orgasms. But for real, can you really expect less from a man who is 50+ years old? They have fully learned and mastered the anatomy of a woman and know what to do to keep her cumming back! These young guys don’t even know what to do with a clit yet *rolls eyes*. Don’t for a second think that being with an older man means he on viagra or has erectile dysfunction if anything they will tire you out in the bedroom!
  3. They know how to court and be gentlemen. Courting was in their generation of dating so expect to be treated like a lady when you’re with an older man. If you’re a hopeless romantic and swoon over those old love stories, date someone who is from that time lol.
  4. They are wiser. I love when an older daddy gives me life advice lmao. Obviously they have been through and lived through more that is why they know more. They can teach you how to adult while you’re still learning how to function as an adult!
  5. Older guys know what they want. Again, because of their age and where they are in life, older men do not want to play games. They are done searching, experimenting. They are straight to the point when it comes to their intentions. They do not leave you guessing to where you guys stand. Older men can make everything crystal clear.
  6. Older men are more established. His ass better be established if he’s freakin pushing 50! Again with having lived longer, he’s probably already got a house, car, career and life insurance. All those things are pluses because you do not have to figure it out on your own.


7. He more than likely already has kids. This is great for new parents because like myself because I can always ask my older bae for parenting tips. Or better yet, I do not even have to show him how to put a child in a seat because he has done it so many times! His kids are probably grown as well so even while you’re playing step-mommy you don’t have to worry about anybody else’s kids. Everyone is happy!

8. To tie in with the previous reason, there is no baby mama drama. His BM(s) are old just like him and they too no longer have the time or energy to start shit.

9. You can be his little arm candy. Yea, his friends will definitely be jealous and gawking at you. I don’t think there is nothing wrong with being shown off. A lot of older men do want younger women so it all works out for everyone.


10. They’re freakin hotttttt! I don’t know if it’s their salt and pepper beards, wrinkles, bald heads and or beer bellies but they just make my toes curl! Older men are the way to go for sure in 2020. At least take a chance! Nothing is guaranteed but you’ll never know if you do not try! It has been such a game-changer for me when it comes to dating.

So hide your daddies and grand-daddies, because we are coming for them.

Peace, Love & Melanin

-The Brown Mom